Saturday, August 30, 2014

Anal August

Since August is coming to a close and has been called “Anal August”, m and me would be remiss if we hadn’t celebrated it properly.
Who are we kidding, we just love anal sex!!
Anywho, let me share last Fridays anal celebration……

Friday afternoon I sent m a text to call me when she got a chance and within just a few minute she called.
I told her how great it would be to see her that evening. Then I explained why I wanted her to call. I told her that before she left her house I wanted her to insert her small butt plug and to keep it in until she got to my house and I removed it.
When m arrived I had her undress at the door, turn around and bend over. There it was just as I had instructed.What a beautiful sight to behold.

I removed the butt plug and told her what a great little sub she was for doing what she was told.
She thanked me and then told me how sorry she was that she had not inserted the plug until she gotten most of the away here.
When i questioned her about it she hesitated then told me how uncomfortable it would have been wearing it all the way here. She wasn’t going to say anything but when I called her a great little sub she had to confess. Then she once again told me how sorry she was. Then she smiled.
I’ve been bad Sir and I need to be punished. Please spank me for disobeying.”
I took her by the hand and lead her into my bedroom.
As you wish my brat!”
Then I laid her on the bed and gave her a good spanking until her ass was nice and red.

While i was spanking her I fingered her asshole and swatted her clit several times and she was soon cumming and soaking us and the bed. 
After the spanking I undressed and brought out our toy box.
I told m to assume the doggy position and to spread her ass cheek. I took some anal beads, applied a generous amount of lube and slowly inserted them into m’s asshole.
Once all the beads were inserted I laid on my back and had m climb over me in the sixty nine position.
As m took my hard cock into her mouth I began eating her pussy. Fucking her deep with my tongue, sucking her labia and sucking and biting her clit.
m was soon moaning around my cock and squirting her juices and just as she started to cum I slowly pulled the anal beads out. Each time a bead slipped out, m climaxed, until she was squirting and cumming non stop.
As the finally bead was pulled out I stopped her sucking and put her into the doggy position then ram my cock balls deep into her asshole with one thrust.

As m moaned her approval I started fucking her hard and deep. While doing that I reached around and alternated between pinching and slapping her nipples and then her clit.
After a few minutes of hard fucking I couldn’t hold out any longer and I shot gigantic load of my scalding cum deep inside m’s asshole. 
As I started shooting my load I spanked m’s clit harder and she screamed out, cumming and squirting even more.
After I finished cumming I pulled out and quickly inserted the butt plug I had brought in with me. Then I had her lay on her back while I brought her some orange juice and then cradled her in my arms.
Soon we both drifted off to sleep. 
About an hour later I woke up and quietly got out of bed, went into the bathroom, took a piss and cleaned up. 
I took a warm wet washcloth out and began cleaning m. In a few moment she woke up with a smile and a thank you. 
My cock had became hard again and I kneeled over her face and began smacking her lips with it. 
Please let me suck it Sir.” she moaned as she opened her mouth wide. 
Happy to oblige I shoved my hardon into her mouth and she began licking and sucking with gusto.
A few moment later I pulled my cock out and told her to turn over and get on all fours.
While she did that I got two vibrators out of the toy box and covered them with lube.
 When I pulled the butt plug out of m, my cum starting running out, covering her asshole and pussy. I took the washcloth and cleaned off my cum and then I inserted one of the vibrators into her asshole and the other in her pussy and turned them on full force.
I started fucking her hard and deep with both vibrators within seconds m was cumming once again.
I had m hold the vibrator in her pussy and told her to keep fucking herself while I kept fucking her asshole. I moved around to the front of m and lifted up her chin.
With a smile she open her mouth wide and I shove my cock to the back of her throat.
At first ours positions were rather awkward but we soon developed a good rhythm as I fucked her throat with my cock and her asshole with the vibrator and she fucked her pussy with the other vibrator.
m started having multiple orgasms and I soon joined her with an orgasm of my own, squirting my second load of the night into m’s mouth. It wasn’t as copious an amount as earlier but was still a large enough load that she couldn’t swallow all of it and some ran out the corners of her mouth and down her chin.
It seemed like we both came for hours, but after a few moment our orgasms subsided and with a couple of smacks to m’s ass I pulled my cock out of her mouth and the vibrator out of her asshole and she pulled the vibrator out of her pussy.
I flopped over on my back and m rolled over beside me. She smiled, wiped the cum from her mouth and chin, licked it off her finger, snuggled up and was soon fast asleep. I joined her moments later and we slept until morning. 

When we both woke up I turned m onto her side, away from me and entered her asshole with my morning hardon and made slow passionate love to her asshole until I filled it with hot cum and she soaked the bed with her the bed with her orgasm.

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Saturday, August 9, 2014

Words of Wisdom

Thoughts on Correction

Far from being the weak doormats their detractors might label them, submissives are often feisty and willful. They tend to have strong minds of their own and have a tendency to act on them, sometimes without regard for the rules, protocols and desires of their Dominant. More often than not the infraction is a matter of self-will and self-seeking rather than a spiteful disregard for their Dominant. It is usually a case of getting wrapped up in the moment and forgetting themselves and their commitment and devotion. More often than not when a submissive deviates from the desires of their Dominant and it is pointed out, they are shocked to have made the mistake, ashamed of having let their self-will overtake their devotion, and deeply regretful for having done so.

The fact that submissives have a tendency to beat themselves up over their own mistakes should be taken into account when addressing a failing or misstep; the focus being more on correction rather than punishment. That said, infractions should not be overlooked entirely either. A submissive looks to their Dominant for direction, leadership, structure, authority, as well as devotion, honor and love. While it may not always be appropriate to severely punish for an infraction when the submissive clearly recognizes the error of their ways, it is crucial that a Dominant be consistent in adherence to standards and rules and that infractions not be permitted to go by unnoticed or unaddressed in some fair and reasonable manner. Failure to do so will only serve to confuse a submissive and leave them feeling unsure of where their boundaries are. It will also serve to undermine in very subtle ways the authority and legitimacy of the power exchange.

A submissive craves being under the firm hand of a competent and consistent leader. They do not want to be permitted to run amok and do not want to serve a doormat.  Though they may test the boundaries from time to time, at heart they do not want to be given the room to “top from the bottom” by being permitted to bend the rules or break them without notice or consequence. At the same time they desire to serve a Master who is consistent, fair, and reasonable. From that comes respect.

All too often, Dominants feel the need to operate with a heavy hand as though respect and devotion can come from fear and blind obedience. They do not. A prudent and competent Dominant will be consistent in the application of their rules and the expectation that they be followed, but will be circumspect in how they deal with infractions. Willful disregard of protocols, rules, and desires must necessarily be met with swift and solid response. Inadvertent infractions or regrettable lapses of judgement should also be addressed just as swiftly but the response should be measured with an eye toward pointing out the regrettable error and establishing that it is neither acceptable nor should be repeated. It is a  reminder and a warning of sorts, a correction of errant ways, not retribution or punishment. However, should the inadvertent actions continue, a sign that there may either be a lack of clarity over the rules or lack of respect for their adherence, clearly either the rules need to be clarified or punishment may be warranted.

The bottom line is that a Dominant should be firm and consistent but not cruel and impulsive. Punishing out of anger or frustration is neither productive or conducive to building respect or future obedience. When a submissive is already aware of the error of their ways and regretful of their actions, a measured and restrained response by a Dominant speaks louder than a harsh abrasive one. Sometimes it’s what is not said and what is not done that speaks louder and garners greater respect. The best leaders are not only firm and consistent but also compassionate.

Address errors, disobedience and other matters of concern swiftly and relevantly but always exercise the sort of self-control that is expected from a Dominant who is masterful of themselves and those around them. Doing so will not only gain further respect and deeper devotion from a submissive, it will also serve as a stronger reminder against future infractions and a deeper incentive for a submissive to want to please their Master and never fail them.

Be firm, be consistent, be compassionate. Devotion and obedience will surely follow.

Caption © For The Love of a Submissive, 2013


The Three Modes Of D/S Play

To me, the point of D/s play (i.e. Domination and submission) is for two people to explore together, so as to learn more about what gives each other pleasure.

From the outside looking in, this may appear to be about one person giving up control to another. It looks very asymmetrical. One person commands. One person submits.

But when it works, there’s a much deeper symmetry. Both people are giving each other permission to explore what gives them pleasure. Once you get behind the outer shell, the inside is simply an expression of love.

In the first mode of D/s play, the Dominant is commanding the submissive to give him/her pleasure. I want you to make me feel good. The sub’s role is to step into being a source of pleasure for another, which can be quite a delicious experience for some. The Dom’s role is to invite pleasure and to receive without resistance. There are tremendous lessons here for both.

In the second mode, the Dom invites the sub to explore the sub’s sources of pleasure. I want you to let me make you feel good. The sub’s role is now to receive, especially by allowing the Dom to discover the sub’s pleasure triggers. The Dom’s role is to discover what gives the sub pleasure and to give that pleasure in the most delicious ways, such as by teasing and building up the energy without releasing it right away. There are powerful lessons to be learned here as well.

In the third mode, the Dom and the sub agree to explore how they can co-create the deepest, richest experience of pleasure for each other at the same time. Both are doing their best to tap into the flow of giving and receiving. The Dom is simply the one giving a voice to that flow. But when they’re truly in sync, the voice is almost redundant. They can both hear where the flow wants to go so clearly that no verbalization is necessary. But when things fall off track, the Dom is the one with the clear responsibility to do what it takes to restore the flow state, and the sub trusts the Dom to perform this role.

No mode is superior to the others. These aren’t levels or steps to progress through. They’re simply different ways of exploring together. Each mode has its own delights and its own lessons.


What is bliss? How do we define that? How can we create that experience together?

In a way, bliss is a result of letting go.

Many people who’ve experienced bliss would agree that bliss is our natural state. It’s how we feel when we’re at our very best. To return to that state, we need to release the blocks that keep us from it. D/s play is the act of giving another person permission to help you identify and release these blocks.

What keeps you out of bliss? Do you allow your body image to get in the way? Have your turn-ons been shamed and guilted away? Are you afraid of rejection or judgment? Are you unable to express your desires without feeling you’re being too selfish? Do you see people as separate from you, a potential threat? Do you stop yourself from fully surrendering to pleasure?

Are you ready to let all of that nonsense go? Have you decided that it’s time to shed it? Have you come to the awareness that there are no good reasons for denying yourself and others great pleasure? Are you ready to return to your natural state of being — to be happy, to creatively express yourself, to touch, to feel, to smile, to laugh, and to play?

Are you aware that D/s play isn’t just a sexual experience? It’s actually an experience filled with lots of laughter. I think partly the laughs come out as various blocks are released. That once-trapped energy is often released as laughter. Sometimes as tears of joy. And sometimes as other strong, seemingly out of place emotions. And afterwards there’s a tremendous feeling of relief. Finally that trapped energy has been freed.

We block ourselves from experiencing bliss in so many ways. D/s play is simply one tool among many for returning there. It can be intense to be sure, but this kind of intensity is a good thing; it’s the release of trapped energy. If you’re ready to invite that kind of experience, great. If you’re not ready to invite it, no worries; there are other paths of growth to explore.

What I love about D/s play is that it’s a social experience. It is a commitment to explore bliss with another person, to remove our masks and lower our shields, to return ourselves to the recognition that we’re already one.

I could meditate on my own, but more often than not, I’ll simply fall asleep from boredom. I do meditate regularly, but mainly as a way of taking a break and relaxing my mind. I prefer to create the experience of bliss by inviting the body along for the ride, rather than trying to transcend the body and retreat into the mind, heart, and spirit. I want to bring the physical world with me… no need to leave it behind. It can make the trip. It’s all energy anyway. To share such an experience with another is deliciousness incarnate, one of my favorite parts of this human journey.

When I look into a woman’s eyes after we’ve both surrendered ourselves fully, I see an angel. I see her full spiritual beauty, her perfection, her true nature. And I’m in awe of it. To behold such beauty and to feel it beholding me with no shielding whatsoever is a pleasure beyond all pleasures.

A Special Thx To Steve Pavlina

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